It's hard to believe that summer holidays are almost over.
So much has happened since June, and unfortunately,I never did get a chance to document it all here.
To recap the first part of June:
June 4/08
Andy and I headed to Seattle for a few days. He finally found some time to take a dental course at the Kois Center for Dental Excellence. Granny and Grandpa were in charge of the boys this weekend. I picked up our rental car and headed to Andy's office to pick him up. (We had to leave the van for the grandparents to transport the boys in). We had just gotten onto the Coquihalla Hwy. when we received a phone call from Christopher that the van wouldn't start! (uugh) So I called our friend Tim and he turned around to go back to the school to see what was up. Apparently the battery was dead.(not sure how that happened, as it was running completely fine when I left them 20 minutes prior!) Anyway, they took the van to Honda and they replaced the battery.
5 hrs + later we arrived in Seattle. The hotel we were at was great! The concierge was fantastic! See today was our 14th Wedding Anniversary and after telling him that he promptly called Chandler's Crabhouse across the St. and made a reservation for us. We were seated immediately at a lovely table overlooking Lake Washington. An appetizer was brought over(compliments of our hotel.......very nice!) We had a great dinner and left completely stuffed! lol
June 5/08
Today Andy was up early and headed to his course. I heard him leave, but fell back asleep and actually MISSED breakfast!(it was included in our stay and only served until 9 am) So, I stayed in bed watched a TV show, as it was pouring rain outside, and I wasn't in a huge hurry to get out there. I located the nearest Mall on my GPS and headed out that way.Only trouble is that darn GPS wasn't cooperating with the fact that I wanted to go shopping in Seattle, and it took me WAY out of the way....kept thinking I was in Arkansas! Whatever! I finally got it to work properly and found the mall I was looking for. I had the B E S T day shopping and found lots of great things for the boys. I tell you, Macy's and Nordstrom's are my new FAV. stores!
June 6/08
Today I did some more shopping(sooooooooooo much fun!) Also had my nails done at one of those places in the mall that does nails for cheap. I had a french manicure done and it only cost me $15. I went back to the hotel and then waited for Andy to come back from his course so we could attend a dinner cruise hosted by Dr. Kois and his wife on thier yacht! I had purchased a nice pair of black dress pants and a sweater to wear (as it was STILL raining in Seattle and I had only brought 'summery' type clothing to wear). I had on some nice wedge heels and my blue trench coat. Anyway, we got to the boat and everyone was dressed in jeans and fleece jackets! Hmm, can you say overdressed??? I hate when that happens! We learned all about Seattle, got to see the outside of Bill Gates' residence. Did you know that his house is built on a cliff and 80% of it is built into the hill, so you don't even see that from the water. When they were building it, they needed to do a lot of blasting, so as a courtesy to his neighbours, he paid off all their mortgages! Nice!
June 7/08
Today was the last day for Andy's course. I was headed out to the Super Mall in Auburn, which was a 30 min. drive from the hotel. I almost turned back because the darn rain was coming down so strong and driving on the Freeway in those conditions in the rental car had me a bit freaked out.
I found the mall all right(thank you GPS unit). Found a Nordstrom Rack and GREAT deals on all kinds of stuff for the boys. All those brand names they love like Volcom, Hurley, Quiksilver etc., and sooooooooo cheap too....I had to restrain myself! lol Then I went into Bed, Bath and Beyond and let me tell you.....I was in there forever....they had Quiksilver bedding and accent pillows to boot! I got each of the boys some bedding and pillows.
On my way back to the hotel, I found a Target and got a Margaritaville Machine. Much less $ than in Canada.
My phone rang at 3:05 p.m. and it was Jacob. He was crying saying......" Mommy come home Michael's hurt bad". I asked him what happened and he said that Michael had fallen off his bike and was bleeding. My first question was did he have a helmet on? Jacob said he did. Now at this point I'm assuming that it's nothing major, that Jacob would call me if it was a small scratch, so I asked where Michael was bleeding from, and he said his mouth...to which I replied...."ok, that's ok, just give him a popsicle" (the cold would constrict the blood vessels and stop the bleeding). I then asked to speak to Granny and she came to the phone and said," I can't talk to you right now, I have to call 911!" Now I'm driving in the rain on the I-5 heading back to Seattle trying to figure out what the heck is going on at our house! Either A) Fran is over reacting, or B) She's a nurse and it must be pretty bad! I immediately call Jennifer to ask her if she could go over and see what's going on, but she's not at home.
The next phone call I get is from Fran who says that they're at the ER and that they've started an IV and are doing a CAT scan. My heart is in my throat, and I'm trying not to panic. I start to pray for Michael.Jacob and Nicholas rode to the hospital in the ambulance(both traumatic and exciting I'm sure).
I arrive back at the hotel. Jennifer and I are on the phone constantly trying to figure out what's going on.I then get a phone call from Liana who says that Tom phoned her and that they're all praying for Michael. My first reaction is to get my stuff and leave, but Jen convinces me that Andy will have a heart attack if he comes back to the hotel and finds a note that I've left. So I wait, and I try not to pace. I had all our stuff packed and ready to go at the door.
Andy arrives back at the hotel around 5:20 p.m. He's excited because we were 'supposed' to be going out for dinner that night just the two of us and the next day we would drive home. This sudden calm came over me and I said......." Andy, we need to leave now. Michael's been brought to the hospital via ambulance....they've started an IV and are doing a CAT scan." His reaction wasn't as calm. We packed up the rental car in less than 10 minutes and headed for the border. I don't think we spoke to each other till we reached Canada. Both of us were scared about what condition we'd find Michael in once we got back.
We did however finally get to speak to Fran about what happened and this is what she said Nicholas had told her:
Michael, Nicholas and Jacob were out riding bikes behind our house. Michael had taken a jump on his bike and flew over the handle bars. He landed on his chin and had a seizure. Nicholas sent Jacob back to get Granny. Poor little guy, he must have been so scared. Anyway, Granny runs up to where they are and realizes that she didn't even bring a phone with her. They flag down some guy who's out dune buggying and he brings Michael down the hill. He is bleeding quite badly from his mouth, but they can't figure out where it's coming from. Michael is conscious, and is screaming in pain. It's by the Grace of God that Michael wore the helmet that he did that day, or his injuries would have been much worse. He couldn't find his actual bike helmet, and instead found the proper mountain biking helmet with a full face shield!
We arrived at the hospital at 10:30 p.m. and Michael was still in Emergency. He was heavily sedated and they had just finished stitching his mouth. Apparently when he fell the iron jaw on his helmet pulled his lower lip down which tore the gingiva away from his mandible from bicuspid - bicuspid. He had 12 stitches in his mouth, and a severe concussion. No brain bleeds, no broken jaw, nothing done to his face on the outside.
The Dr. said he'd need to be in the hospital for a few days for observation. I stayed with him on Pediatrics. They woke him every hour and asked him all kinds of questions. His reaction or lack thereof scared the crap out of me....the nurse asked him if he knew where he was, and he was completely blank, no response. She kept repeating the question as he fell back to sleep.She woke him again, and then told him that he'd had a bad accident on his bike, that he was in the hospital etc.This went on all night long. He finally was able to respond to her at about 5 a.m., when she asked him if he knew where he was. He was able to get up to use the washroom and when he saw his face in the mirror, he cried. He was very swollen due to the trauma and all the IV fluids, but in the grand picture, it wasn't too bad considering what might have been.
The Pediatrician looking after him was Dr. Duncan whose son plays on Michael's soccer team. He was very good and stayed at the hospital late to make sure Michael was all right.
June 8/08
At 6:00 a.m.the nurse came in to check on Michael and wake him up. He answered her questions, then when she left, he says........" Mom, Nicholas and I went up to the sand hill on our bikes", and I said "do you remember that?" He said yes, but that's all he remembers.
Jen, Tim and the kids came to visit him today.They brought him some candy and magazines. He didn't want to come out of the bathroom because he didn't want them to see his face all swollen, poor thing.
The boys and Andy brought in balloons, and 3 stuffies for Michael.
Nonna, Nonno, Granny and Grandpa also came to visit. Michael slept a lot.
June 9/08
Elaine Johnson and Michelle Graham brought me a Starbucks Latte this morning! They're so sweet! Franca came in shortly thereafter and brought me a coffee and a balloon for Michael. He was doing a bit better today, and the nurse said we could probably go home.
Good thing Grandpa came up, cause we needed help getting everything to the van.
Michael was on IV antibiotics for an infection he got in his jaw from where the stitches were. He can't open his mouth very wide, so can only eat liquids and yogurt for now. Dr. Medinsky and Dr. Docherty came in today. We got the orders to go home! Yay!
Michael still had a long road to full recovery and we had to have him lay low.
The first few days/nights at home he slept most of the time.
He had to quit soccer, and couldn't go back to school until he was symptom free(no headaches, dizziness etc.)
He did manage to return to school for a few days at the end of June.
I thank God that he wasn't more seriously injured.
I thank God that Nicholas stayed with him and sent Jacob to get Granny.
I thank God that she called 911 and went to the hospital.
I thank God that Dr. Duncan was on call that day.
I thank God that he had caring nurses.
I thank God that he had a WONDERFUL Teacher this year.
I thank God for the wonderful loving family and friends we have.
I thank God that today he is back to normal and one of the many joys in my life.
I thank God that we belong to a wonderful school community that prayed for Michael everyday and sent him get well cards.
I thank God for the many amazing online friends that prayed for Michael even though they've never met him.
I thank God that we still have Michael in our lives.
Maria

